Edging, sometimes also referred to as gooning[1][2] or surfing,[3] is a sexual technique whereby an orgasm is controlled (that is, delayed or prevented). It is practiced alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax.[4] Orgasm control involves either sex partner being in control of the other partner's orgasm, or a person delaying their own orgasm during sexual activity with a partner or through masturbation. Any method of sexual stimulation can be used to experience controlled orgasm.[5]
When the controlled orgasm is achieved, the physical sensations are greater as compared to conventional orgasm. Orgasm control has also been referred to as "slow masturbation" and "extended massive orgasm".[6][3]
The term should not be confused with edgeplay, premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, or the inability to orgasm. Edgeplay is a sexual practice distinct from edging. Do not confuse the two; the other terms all describe involuntary medical conditions.[5]