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The difference between a successful career on Wikipedia and an unsuccessful one oftentimes comes down to the first post on a user's talk page. Editors should remember that Wikipedia is a community and that a new editor's opinion of this community will be formed at that point. The first comment a user receives should not be about teaching them right from wrong, it should be an invitation. Let the editor know that all are welcome here and that we appreciate their decision to donate their time to this project. The questions on policy will come later.